A whirled world

Feeling disconnected post-election? Dive into the interconnected nature of our judgments and biases. Explore how unresolved generational patterns shape how we see ourselves and others, and why understanding this is key to personal and collective healing.

the world is a reflection of the inner you….www.lifeinsynergy.com

Navigating Disconnection: Understanding Our Interconnected Reality

If recent Political events have left you feeling detached or disillusioned, or even if you're in high spirits, there’s value in exploring perspectives beyond our own as “different,” rather than “wrong.” This shift isn’t about invalidating our emotions but rather expanding our understanding.

Let’s begin with an essential truth: we all share this single, fragile planet. Regardless of where we stand, we all navigate a tangled web of personal emotions, biochemical processes, and internal energies that fuel our actions and reactions. No one—not even the most ambitious among us—has the luxury of relocating to a different world simply because they find their fellow inhabitants difficult. Even hypothetically, what chance would a new society have if it carried unresolved legacies like ego, racism, sexism, and the persistent urge for control?

Likely, the cycle of conflict would follow us wherever we go.

As it stands, we’re a species governed by millennia of repetitive patterns, cycling through the same historical themes. We see global divides in 2024 that resonate with those of 1900, 1800, or 500. Despite immense advances in technology and society, these underlying currents of division remain hauntingly unchanged.

In many ways, the human mind—our most potent tool, capable of inventing everything from electric lights to digital marvels—still relies on a primitive “filter.” This mental filter, which automatically categorizes people by characteristics such as race, gender, wealth, and social status, was our first attempt at making sense of the world. It acts like a camera filter on our phones, coloring every interaction before we even engage. With this filter, we slot people into boxes, drawing on preconceptions we’ve absorbed from countless external influences.

The paradox? The “other” we resist or judge is often a reflection of our own unresolved aspects.

When we feel triggered by someone else’s behavior or identity, it’s often because they mirror parts of ourselves we haven’t fully accepted or understood. This realization is jarring: the person we project our judgments onto is, in many ways, an extension of our own experience.

Human consciousness is thus a vessel carrying layers of history—emotional imprints from generations past that we unconsciously replay. The 21st century is simply the context; our bodies are processing the same fundamental impulses that may have driven us thousands of years ago. When we judge others, we reinforce the very divisions within ourselves.

So, the age-old principle remains: what we do to others, we ultimately do to ourselves. This isn’t a curse—it’s a chance to recognize that healing ourselves may be the most effective way to heal the divisions we see around us. In learning to honor this shared humanity, we allow for a kind of progress that can’t be measured in inventions or societal advancements alone.

Spirituality isn’t a 4 letter word or some bullshit…….it doesn’t have to be religious or cult like. It could be as basic as looking at someone you despise in your mind and taking a moment to see if any of what “they” are doing can also be a part of your very being and if so, how can you change it within yourself and join the whole cosmic quantum entanglement fun in the process?

Helena and Brian

Life in Synergy Inc.

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The Power of Collective Healing: How Individual Transformation Can Create Global Change

Discover how individual healing can create a ripple effect of positive change across the world. Learn practical steps for self-transformation, the impact of inner work on global challenges, and how programs like Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy can guide you toward personal and collective growth.

In a world where turmoil often takes center stage, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer magnitude of global challenges.

From environmental crises to social inequality, the issues seem insurmountable. Yet, what if I told you that the greatest power to create change lies within each of us—one soul at a time? This isn't just a romanticized notion but a profound truth that has guided spiritual practices for centuries. By focusing on our individual healing and growth, we can spark a ripple effect that reaches far beyond our personal lives, creating positive shifts that reverberate throughout the world.

The Ripple Effect: Healing Starts Within

Healing doesn’t happen overnight, and it certainly doesn’t happen in isolation. When we take time to confront our shadows, face the patterns that hold us back, and nurture our inner light, we begin to transform. This inner work might start with meditation, therapy, or spiritual practices like Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy program, which provides a structured path for understanding the deeper layers of our being. Through such practices, we uncover the roots of our suffering—whether they are karmic, inherited, or learned—and begin to release them.

As we change, so does the energy we bring into the world. Think of each healed heart as a stone dropped into a still pond. The ripples created by that one stone travel outward, touching the lives of others, inspiring them to embark on their own healing journey. The more stones we drop, the greater the collective wave of change becomes.

How Personal Transformation Impacts the World

It’s easy to dismiss individual healing as insignificant in the grand scheme of things, but let’s put it in perspective. When one person breaks free from a cycle of self-doubt, they radiate a new sense of confidence and peace. Their interactions become more compassionate, their decisions more thoughtful, and their presence more uplifting. This energy is contagious—people around them start to feel it too, even if they don’t fully understand why.

Imagine a world where more of us operate from this space—where instead of reacting to pain with more pain, we respond with patience, understanding, and love. It’s not about ignoring the world's problems or pretending they don’t exist; it’s about cultivating the strength and clarity to approach them with a fresh perspective.

Practical Steps to Begin Your Healing Journey

  1. Self-Awareness: The first step to change is awareness. Pay attention to the patterns in your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Are there recurring themes or feelings that keep coming up? These may be clues to deeper, unresolved aspects of yourself.

  2. Meditation and Reflection: Carving out time for introspection can open doors to deeper understanding. For those who prefer guidance, programs try Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy it offers a structured approach to diving into your inner world.

  3. Embrace Your Shadows: Healing isn’t just about love and light; it’s also about confronting the darker aspects of yourself—your fears, regrets, and pain. It’s through facing these shadows that we integrate them and begin to find wholeness.

  4. Connect with a Community: While the journey is deeply personal, having a supportive community can make all the difference. Whether it’s a local meditation group, a spiritual mentor, or online spaces for sharing and reflection, being surrounded by others on a similar path can amplify your growth.

  5. Practice Compassion—For Yourself and Others: As you embark on this journey, remember to extend compassion to yourself. Healing can be messy and nonlinear. By being gentle with your process, you naturally learn to be more patient with others, creating a world that is kinder and more understanding.

The Bigger Picture: Shifting from Individual to Collective

The beauty of focusing on individual healing is that it requires no grand gestures—no major resources, no complex plans. It’s about each of us, in our everyday lives, striving to become a little more self-aware, a little more loving, a little more whole. And as more of us commit to this path, the energy of the world slowly begins to shift.

Collective healing doesn’t mean erasing diversity or uniformity of thought. Rather, it’s about creating a world where each person’s unique journey is honored and where the higher vibrations of self-awareness and love become the norm. Imagine a world where people make decisions not out of fear or ego but from a place of grounded clarity and deep compassion.

Why Now? The Urgency of Healing

The challenges we face today—climate change, social divisions, economic disparity—are reminders that the old ways of thinking no longer serve us. They call for a new approach, one that starts from within and expands outward. By focusing on our own transformation, we can become the kind of leaders the world needs—leaders who act from a place of integrity, courage, and vision.

If you’ve been looking for a way to make a difference, know that your journey towards wholeness is the first step. It may seem small, but every step you take creates a ripple. And when those ripples meet, they create waves that can shape the world.

The Role of Tools like Apex Life in Synergy

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy program is one such tool that supports this process. It’s designed to help you understand the inherited patterns, karmic challenges, and learned behaviors that might be holding you back. By working through these layers, you not only transform your own life but also contribute to the larger movement of collective healing. Programs like this offer a roadmap, a way to navigate the complexities of self-discovery with guidance and support.

Final Thoughts: A Brighter Future Begins with You

The world is in need of healing, but that healing doesn’t start in governments or boardrooms—it starts in the hearts of individuals like you. By embracing your journey, you become a beacon for others, showing them that change is possible, not through force, but through the quiet power of transformation. In a time when the world is aching for change, never underestimate the impact of your own healing. Every moment you choose peace, compassion, or understanding, you are contributing to a world that is more whole.


So, let’s create that ripple together—one soul at a time.

Ready to start your healing journey?

Discover how the Apex Life in Synergy program can guide you through self-discovery and transformation.




Life in Synergy Inc.


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Who let the air out of the tires?

Discover how to identify and overcome energy hounds, subconscious sabotage, and old patterns that block your spiritual growth. Explore insights on achieving personal ascension through self-awareness and energy protection with Boston's award winning wellness dynamic duo, Brian and Helena Collins

Did you ever have a moment when you felt that the world was your oyster?

Life itself was a supernova and the world was exactly on track?

You could see your role and it’s infinite possibilities on how you could contribute to the bigger picture of life itself and by doing so, you yourself would also ascend to new levels of consciousness? You may have had a specific song play in your head as a soundtrack and a special pep in your step as each step forward was indeed a step forward into a new world of your creation?

Then the fan that cosmically spun, suddenly had massive shit thrown directly at it and clogged its mechanisms. Suddenly you felt devastated, weakened and off track. Your very being was wiped and the pep in the step was replaced with the doom in your gloom. How can this be? How can a cosmic battery be drained so quickly?

Energy hounds and old patterns are Ninjas that’s why.

Both can knock a person off center at any time if a person loses sight of the unfortunate truth of our dimension: if there is good, there is evil.

A good person who is blind to this reality is subject to the double whammy of self attack and of the negative will of others. A self attack consists of subconscious thoughts and actions often sabotaging a persons forward progress. Why would a person do that to themselves you might think? They wouldn’t, the subconscious mind is simply a hard drive that stores information throughout a persons present ( and past) life and when challenged with new energy patterns, thoughts, deeds and actions may rebel against what it considers its “only”cemented reality.

This challenge may lead to self destructive actions, arguments, disillusionment as the subconscious tries its best to hold a firm grasp on “What is” and unknowingly a person will fall prey to the subtle aspects of old ways surfacing and causing slow downs in ones progress. I personally went through periods of this as I studied deeply in Chi Gong and Hawaiian spiritual aspects throughout the years. I was challenged daily by my older mindset of being “just” an inner city kid who couldn’t possibly ever be like the Masters I idolized, after all, they had the secrets and me? I was just a guy from the projects in the lower end of South Boston.

All old bullshit in my subconscious.

As my training continued over the decades and I began to wake to the acknowledge that I was the person people came to see from all over the world to create change for them at my office on Newbury street in Boston’s Back Bay and I was rewriting my life story daily by fully dedicating myself to the new energies I was creating. I will pat myself on the back and say I also never forgot that there is a ton of negative bullshit out there and stayed true to my inner city side (keeping a spiritual head on a swivel) so I guess in many ways I accepted that the yin yang as just not an Asian symbol, but an absolute fact on the ever shifting levels of invisible influential duplicity and prepared myself for any and all “Ninjas” that may pop up.

If there is light, there is indeed dark and a seeker has to be prepared and learn how to feel the subtle changes of these intertwining flows moment by moment. As you unlock new levels of self , you can and will identify the “What was energy” and “What is” and be more aware to old energies trying to regain frequency control and influence your thoughts and actions. This is the key to not allowing subconscious influence to creep in as you ascend into new heights.

Energy hounds?

Now they are on a whole different predatory level.

They are ones that when you say things like “What a wonderful sunny day” they will say to you “ No, Not really, “blank” is currently in war and people are dying or tell you a story about how a relative of theirs can’t be out in the sun and cries in a window when the sun comes out. You know the type, we have all met someone like this be it at work, social life or encounter with a stranger on the street. These people will say white is black, up is down, day is night and so on, all to just cause a rift in your peace so they can feed on your positive field reaction and use it for themselves. They in turn will make you feel as if you are one that has all the facts wrong and then add onto the energy draining by gaslighting you into thinking that you may be wrong for being so positive in an often negative world.

We all know the feeling after being near a person like this: tired, confused, and completely off center.

These people are very easy to diffuse, you simply do not engage and if you have engaged…walk away. There is no being rude to a person who is trying to drain energy off you, it is simply aura self defense. You owe nothing to an energy hound, if you work with one, if you are friends with one, if you just met one…..when you feel the shift in your vibration begin and feel a “pull” into this persons world…walk away. Preservation is better than being reduced to their level. Who cares if they say “You are rude” as they are simply sending out feelers to pull you back in to them by seeking another reaction from you by doing so, see the endless tendrils?

You owe it to yourself to read this blog and then study what thoughts YOU then have….are they telling you “This is bullshit” perhaps?

Mine thought was just that many decades ago when I met the Kahuna I would study with for the very 1st time, he quickly altered that thought of mine and well, off I went into the land of renew and haven’t stopped yet. He has since passed away and in many ways I feel as if I have picked up the staff and gone off into the desert of the world continuing my “job” of being the man behind the curtain of change. I remember when he came to Boston 2 decades ago after I did something VERY large for the city and pulled me aside and told me that All ( including him) in his organization should be studying with me, he was so proud of what I had become and said that saying that fact to people in his organization would cause many wonderful “opportunities” to grow and advance. I asked him why would people reject that fact if they were indeed so ascended? He said in his great old Hawaiian accent ( sort of like a Hawaiian Jerry Seinfeld) “ Ohhhh, no matter who people think they are, they always have ego tapping them on their shoulders to remind them they are not”.

So I ask you at YOUR crossroads, see that blue button below?

That is now your chance to ascend, a chance to begin to study new ways or let old outdated energies run your life ( and thus all life on Earth based on Quantum Entanglement). By simply clicking off and taking some morsels of knowledge to regurgitate that you read on this blog and not telling your clients, friends or co workers about www.lifeinsynergy.com, you continue the rule of old energies on the planet and add onto the “take take take” imbalances on Earth or you can purchase one of our programs and help shift the planet.


Brian Collins- Retired Healer and Current Old Man behind the curtain

Life in Synergy® Inc.



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Building Power Skills with Helena Collins' Apex Life in Synergy Program

The power skills you build with Apex Life in Synergy are more than just tools for success—they are the foundation for a fulfilling, purpose-driven life. Whether you're looking to enhance your career, improve your relationships, or simply become more resilient in the face of life's challenges, these skills are the key to unlocking your full potential.

In today's rapidly changing world, the importance of "power skills" can't be overstated.

These skills—sometimes labeled as "soft skills"—are the backbone of personal and professional success. They encompass everything from emotional intelligence and communication to adaptability and leadership. But how does one cultivate these crucial abilities? Enter Helena Collins and her transformative Apex Life in Synergy program, which is designed not just to teach these skills, but to help individuals embody them fully.

What Are “Power Skills”?

Before diving into how the Apex Life in Synergy program builds power skills, let's take a closer look at what they are:

  • Emotional Intelligence: Understanding and managing your emotions, as well as recognizing and influencing the emotions of others.

  • Communication: Articulating thoughts clearly and effectively, listening actively, and reading between the lines of what’s said—and unsaid.

  • Adaptability: Thriving in change, adjusting approaches when faced with new challenges or circumstances.

  • Leadership: Inspiring and guiding others toward a shared goal, regardless of your role or position.

  • Creativity: Innovating and thinking outside the box, bringing fresh ideas to the table.

  • Resilience: Bouncing back from setbacks with a positive outlook and a strong sense of purpose.

These skills aren't just desirable; they are essential. Whether you're navigating the intricacies of a corporate career, managing personal relationships, or simply striving to become the best version of yourself, power skills are the tools that will get you there.

The Apex Life in Synergy Approach

Helena Collins, a pioneer in the wellness and personal development space, has spent years refining her approach to building these vital skills at her 2 highly successful wellness studios in Boston’s Back Bay. The Apex Life in Synergy program is the culmination of this work—an all-encompassing journey that integrates physical, mental, and spiritual growth.

1. Holistic Skill Development

The Apex program doesn’t treat power skills as isolated abilities to be learned. Instead, it weaves them into every aspect of the program. Through a combination of online lessons, one-on-one coaching (for an additional fee) , and active engagement, participants are not just taught power skills—they practice and live them. For example, emotional intelligence is cultivated through guided meditations and reflective exercises, while leadership is fostered in activities that challenge participants to take initiative and inspire others.

2. Experiential Learning

One of the standout features of the Apex Life in Synergy program is its emphasis on experiential learning. Instead of just talking about adaptability or communication, participants are placed in situations that require them to actively use these skills. This could be through role-playing scenarios, real-time problem-solving challenges, or even in the way daily interactions within the program are structured. The focus is on learning by doing, which leads to deeper, more ingrained skill development.

3. Personalized Coaching

Helena Collins understands that each individual is unique, with different strengths, weaknesses, and goals. The Apex Life in Synergy program also offers personalized coaching to help participants identify the specific power skills they need to develop and the best ways to do so. This tailored approach ensures that the skills you build are not just relevant, but also aligned with your personal and professional aspirations.

Why It Matters

In the end, the power skills you build with Apex Life in Synergy are more than just tools for success—they are the foundation for a fulfilling, purpose-driven life. Whether you're looking to enhance your career, improve your relationships, or simply become more resilient in the face of life's challenges, these skills are the key to unlocking your full potential.

Helena Collins' program is not just about teaching; it's about transformation.

It's about guiding you to discover the best version of yourself, equipped with the skills you need to navigate whatever life throws your way. So, if you're ready to take the next step in your personal and professional journey, the Apex Life in Synergy program is here to help you build the power skills that will carry you to new heights.

For more information or to start your journey, visit Life in Synergy today.

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The Vastness of Human Potential vs. The Infection of Old Energies

Explore the contrast between humanity’s vast potential and the outdated energies like racism, sexism, and greed that hold us back. Discover how fashion, technology, and climate have evolved, yet emotional imbalances persist. Learn ways to break free and achieve spiritual growth.

As we walk through the modern world, it’s almost impossible not to marvel at how much things have changed.

Fashion has evolved from Victorian corsets to athleisure and sustainable wear. Technology has taken us from hand-cranked telephones to devices that fit in our palms, connecting us instantly across continents. The climate, once stable and predictable, is now a chaotic force reminding us daily of the impacts of human activity. In so many ways, humanity has made progress, and yet, when you look beneath the surface, ancient, outdated energies continue to linger like a silent infection.

We speak of human potential in lofty terms. There’s an unspoken acknowledgment that each of us is capable of extraordinary things. At our core, we are beings of light, creativity, and love, capable of profound transformation both personally and collectively. The potential is vast, unlimited even. But old energies, some of which have persisted for millennia, are slowing down the growth of humanity, keeping us tethered to cycles of suffering and imbalance.

Fashion & Technology Have Evolved, So Why Haven’t We?

Think about it: how has fashion changed over the last century? Once symbols of status and class, clothing now reflects individuality, freedom, and even resistance. We’ve transitioned from rigid gendered clothing norms to embracing fluidity in expression. Yet, despite this evolution, look at how power dynamics—like sexism and gender inequality—continue to thrive. The clothing may have changed, but the underlying issues of control, hierarchy, and worthiness linger.

Similarly, technology has brought us to the brink of miracles. We’ve created machines that think faster than we do, artificial intelligence that learns, and spacecraft that reach beyond our solar system. And yet, with all this advancement, the emotional wounds of our ancestors—racism, greed, desire for control—remain disturbingly familiar. Isn’t it curious that while technology marches forward at an exponential rate, our hearts, our emotional intelligence, often seem stuck?

We’ve been raised in a world where old energies like fear and separation continue to dictate our choices. Racism, sexism, and greed aren’t merely relics of past generations—they are living forces, woven into the very fabric of our societies. They thrive in the shadows, infecting new generations despite our technological sophistication.

The Inertia of Old Energies: Why Does This Happen?

What is it about these old energies that make them so sticky, so hard to shake? Part of the issue lies in their subtlety. While fashion and technology are external and visible, emotional and karmic imbalances are invisible forces that persist beneath the surface. These energies thrive in patterns, passed down through generations—sometimes consciously, but often unconsciously.

Many of us were taught to believe that survival comes from power, that control ensures safety, and that the "other" is to be feared. These beliefs are deeply ingrained, and they don’t disappear just because we invent smartphones or revolutionize fashion. They take root in our families, communities, and institutions, quietly shaping the world around us.

Old energies are comfortable. They feel safe because they are familiar. Breaking out of them requires us to confront uncomfortable truths about ourselves and the world. It means we have to look in the mirror and see where we, too, have perpetuated division, judgment, and fear. It means stepping into new ways of being, where the heart, not the ego, leads the way.

So What Do We Do?

There is hope, of course. If human potential is truly infinite, then we have the capacity to transcend these old energies. The question is, how?

First, it begins with awareness.

Becoming aware of the old patterns we carry—whether personal or societal—gives us the power to change them. You can’t fix what you don’t acknowledge. We need to recognize how these forces show up in our lives, not just in large systemic ways, but in the subtle, everyday interactions we have. Where does control creep in? Where does fear of the unknown arise?

Second, we need tools to dissolve these energies.

That’s where programs like Apex Life in Synergy come into play. Helena Collins’ program is designed to not only raise awareness of these ancient forces but also provide a roadmap for moving beyond them. It’s not enough to just talk about how the world needs to change; we need practical steps to untangle the old threads and weave something new.

Lastly, we need courage. Growth is uncomfortable. It requires us to step into the unknown and let go of the security that old energies offer, even if they no longer serve us. But the reward is profound—personal and collective evolution, where humanity finally begins to tap into its vast potential.

Human Potential: The Next Frontier

The external world will continue to evolve—fashion, technology, climate. But true change happens within. Imagine if, alongside our technological advancements, we began to heal the old wounds of racism, sexism, and greed. Imagine a world where the pursuit of power and control gave way to collaboration and compassion. We are on the cusp of something extraordinary, but we cannot carry the infection of old energies with us into the future. The time to shed them is now, and the tools to do so are already in our hands. If we can harness the potential within, humanity’s next great leap won’t be a technological one, but a spiritual one.


Want to begin understanding and releasing the patterns that hold you back? Check out Apex Life in Synergy and start your journey to a new way of being. Visit Life In Synergy to learn more.




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