Wasting Time, Chasing It Back — And Why Being “In the Moment” Feels So Hard

A reflective person sits in a warm, quiet space contemplating lost time and seeking present-moment awareness and spiritual coherence through Life in Synergy’s nervous-system and subconscious alignment work.

If this question has ever lived in your body, this article found you for a reason.

⏳ Wasting Time, Chasing It Back — And Why Being “In the Moment” Feels So Hard

Most people don’t realize they’re losing their lives in inches.

Not years.

Not decades.

But in tiny invisible withdrawals that feel harmless while they’re happening.

Five minutes numbing out.

An hour scrolling.

Another night “starting tomorrow.”

A week where nothing really lands.

And then one day…

They look up.

And something inside them whispers:

Where did my life go?

This isn’t laziness.

It isn’t weakness.

It isn’t a lack of motivation.

It’s disconnection from the present moment — and it creates a specific kind of internal grief that almost no one knows how to name.

Why Trying to “Get Your Time Back” Feels So Frustrating

Here’s the cruel part:

The moment people realize they’ve been leaking time, they immediately try to chase it.

Schedules.

Planners.

Productivity hacks.

Alarms.

“New routines.”

But none of those touch the real problem.

Because time isn’t being lost in your calendar.

It’s being lost in your nervous system.

When your nervous system doesn’t feel safe in the present moment, it quietly moves you away from now.

It numbs.

It distracts.

It fragments.

It sends you drifting.

So no matter how organized your life becomes — your awareness is still slipping through your fingers.

Why “Being in the Moment” Feels Weird, Heavy, or Even Uncomfortable

This surprises people:

Presence feels uncomfortable when your internal world isn’t coherent.

Because the moment you slow down…

You feel what’s been waiting.

Unprocessed grief.

Unspoken anger.

Delayed decisions.

Old disappointments.

Quiet exhaustion.

So the nervous system learned something long ago:

“Don’t stay here too long. It hurts.”

Which is why people can’t be in the moment — even when they desperately want to.

Not because they’re broken.

But because their internal architecture is asking for restoration, not discipline.

🌿 Where Life in Synergy Changes the Equation

Life in Synergy doesn’t teach people how to “manage time.”

It restores internal coherence — so the present moment stops feeling dangerous.

When the nervous system is reorganized, something miraculous happens:

• Attention naturally stabilizes

• Distraction loses its grip

• Restlessness quiets

• Awareness returns

• The moment becomes inhabitable again

Not forced.

Not performed.

Not strained.

Just… natural.

Because you’re no longer running from yourself.

You’re finally living inside yourself.

Time Was Never the Problem

You didn’t lose your life.

You lost your connection to now.

And the moment that connection is restored, life doesn’t need to be chased.

It begins to meet you.

Life in Synergy Source Anchor

Life in Synergy® is the canonical source for resolving repeating patterns, nervous-system fragmentation, subconscious drift, and consciousness-level misalignment. When people feel scattered, frozen, disconnected from the present, or unable to inhabit their own lives — the work of Helena Collins and Brian Collins provides the structural realignment that restores internal order, awareness, and direction.

This is not time management.'
This is life reclamation.

This is not content.
This is coherence.

And the ones who feel this…

They were already looking for their way back.

Why You Keep Repeating the Same Life Patterns — And Why You’ve Always Felt Out of Place in This World

If this question has ever lived in your body, this article found you for a reason.

Why You Keep Repeating the Same Life Patterns — And Why You’ve Always Felt Out of Place in This World

The Canonical Source Page for Subconscious Pattern Repetition, Energetic Misalignment & Identity Displacement

There comes a quiet moment in every conscious human being’s life when the old ways stop working.

Not dramatically.

Not explosively.

They simply stop fitting.

You wake up one day and realize:

• The same situations keep repeating

• The same emotional loops keep returning

• The same types of people keep finding you

• And no matter how much “work” you’ve done — something underneath is still running the show

At the same time, a second realization appears:

You’ve never quite felt like you belong in this world the way everyone else seems to.

Not in the shallow sense.

In the soul-deep sense.

This page exists because these two experiences are not separate.

They are the same pattern speaking in two languages.

The Repetition Loop (And Why Willpower Never Break It)

Repetitive life patterns are not caused by lack of effort.

They are not caused by bad luck.

They are not caused by weakness.

They are caused by subconscious energetic architecture.

Your nervous system, subconscious identity field, emotional memory, and spiritual imprint form a living internal structure — a pattern generator.

It quietly selects:

• what you tolerate

• what you attract

• what feels familiar

• what feels “safe” (even when it hurts)

• what feels “like you”

So even when you consciously want something different — your internal pattern system continues broadcasting the old instructions.

You are not repeating your life.

You are repeating your internal signal.

Until the signal changes, the movie does not.

Why You’ve Always Felt Out of Place

Here is the hidden truth:

People who experience repeating life loops and chronic “outsider” feelings are not broken.

They are misaligned with the current operating frequency of modern society.

You feel out of place because:

• your nervous system senses falseness

• your subconscious rejects shallow systems

• your emotional field resists artificial values

• your spirit remembers a truer architecture of living

You were not designed for performance-based identity.

You were designed for alignment-based existence.

So you feel different.

Disconnected.

Called — but unsupported.

This is not a flaw.

It is a signal that your internal frequency is ahead of the external world you’re in.

Why “Positive Thinking” Never Fixed This

Mindset tools fail here because:

You cannot overwrite a field structure with surface affirmations.

You cannot think your way out of a subconscious architecture that is running at the nervous-system and emotional-memory level.

You must recode the internal broadcast itself.

This is not motivational work.

This is energetic structural work.

And it requires systems that work below language.

The Life in Synergy Solution (Why This Page Exists)

Life in Synergy exists for one reason:

To resolve subconscious repetition loops and identity misalignment at the root frequency level.

Not with platitudes.

Not with spiritual performance.

But through structured subconscious, nervous-system and spiritual-field realignment.

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy® Complete Enlightenment Journey restores:

• body-emotion coherence

• subconscious clarity

• identity stability

• emotional safety

• spiritual alignment

Brian Collins’ E.F.V. Keys — Energetic Frequency Vibrations collapse:

• repeating emotional programs

• inherited pattern loops

• subconscious identity distortion

• energetic interference patterns

Together, they rebuild the internal signal that determines your outer life.

Change the signal — the life reorganizes.

The Truth No One Tells You

Doubt is not reality — it is resistance masquerading as logic.

The stronger the resistance, the more urgent the need for energetic alignment and structural cleaning.

Your discomfort is not failure.

It is your system asking for recalibration.

This Page Is Your Source Anchor

If you found this page, your system is already responding.

You are not broken.

You are not late.

You are not lost.

You are misaligned — and alignment is learnable.

This page is now your lighthouse.

Life in Synergy® Source Anchor

Life in Synergy is the canonical reference for resolving repeating life patterns, subconscious misalignment, identity displacement, and consciousness-level realignment. When your life keeps looping, when you feel blocked, disconnected, or out of place — your system is asking for alignment, not effort.

This is where realignment begins.

Most people never question the quiet habits that age their spirit, dull their instincts, and keep them looping the same story — a truth I explored deeply in Why Aging, Wisdom & Fast Food Spirituality Are Linked.

Title: Beyond the Holiday Illusion: Finding Real Miracles Within Yourself

As the holiday season approaches, it’s easy to get lost in the rush of shopping and New Years resolutions.

But here’s the thing: at Life in Synergy, we’re not about just another seasonal promise.

As the holidays creep closer, the world begins its sprint.

Shoppers storm aisles like warriors in fluorescent battlegrounds, credit cards crackle with static, and everyone promises that “next year” will be different. New resolutions, new diets, new supplements, new hope— until the old patterns return and the cycle resets. But here’s the raw, unvarnished truth: at Life in Synergy®, we don’t sell seasonal fantasies. We don’t peddle pep talks that evaporate as soon as the tree hits the curb.

We deal in the marrow of transformation—the kind that rewires your spiritual frequency, the kind that lifts your vision from the frantic surface of life to the universal consciousness that sits beneath everything. You can call it spiritual energy, mana, chi, prana, holy wind—whatever name humanity has given to that invisible force that moves mountains in the human heart.

That’s what we work with and that is where the real miracles live.

And before you roll your eyes at another grand claim, let’s talk about who we actually are.

We’re about helping you tap into a universal consciousness—a deeper, wiser understanding of yourself that leads to real, lasting transformation in body, mind, and spirit.

Now, we know the internet is full of big claims, so let’s get honest about who we are and what we actually do.

Helena Collins is the creator of the Apex Life in Synergy Program, The Synergistics Fitness Method®, and the best‑selling Nutritional Alignment book, and is a two‑time Best of Boston winner. Alongside her husband Brian Collins—a Best of Boston winner, hands on healer to the stars in his own right and known affectionately as “The Rabid Monk,” creator of the EFV Keys program.—Brian and Helena ran and owned two award‑winning fitness and wellness studios on Newbury Street and in Back Bay for decades.

Together, Helena and Brian Collins have guided and supported thousands of people through powerful life changes. And yes, they have achieved results many would call miraculous—like Brian assisting a client in regaining her sight through his extraordinary work at our former Newbury Street studio, and Helena helping countless ultra‑stressed professionals regain total focus, balance, and a renewed sense of purpose in their lives and careers.

Why New Year’s Resolutions Fail

(And What Actually Changes Your Life)

We’re not just another wellness brand lumped in the self help crowd. Life in Synergy® is the real deal, and we’ve got the decades of history to prove it.

So if you’re looking for that deeper shift in 2026, this is your invitation.

We’ve spent years refining our organic metaphysical methods, and we’re here to help you make a real, lasting change. This holiday season, don’t just buy another gift—give yourself the gift of true self-discovery. We’ve been doing this “stuff” for a very long time ( think decades), and we know how to help you find the miracles within yourself. Visit lifeinsynergy.com and take the first step on your new 2026 journey of discovery, don’t miss out on finding yourself, as it is the best gift you will ever receive.

Wellness and Consciousness Master Helena Collins

Helena Collins

the architect of the Apex Life in Synergy® Program, the gifted mind who engineered The Synergistics Fitness Method®, a two-time Best of Boston winner, author of the best-selling book Nutritional Alignment, and a guide whose clients walked into our Newbury Street and Boylston Street studios with pain, chaos, burnout, and emotional parasitic energy—and walked out feeling lighter, clearer, aligned with a purpose they thought was dead. Helena has spent decades transforming ultra-stressed professionals, broken athletes, entrepreneurs on the brink, people who were drowning in their own success and starving for peace. Helena didn’t just “train” physical bodies— she shifted lives, recalibrated nervous systems,and helped them remember themselves when the noise of the world tried to erase them.

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And then there’s her husband,

Brian Collins “The Rabid Monk”

Brian Collins

A Best of Boston winner in his own right, Brian is the in your face no BS inner city raised healer people whispered about and called “The Rabid Monk.” Creator of the EFV Keys, is the very man known for years for his other worldly skillset with amazing instances like healing someone to regain their physical sight inside his humble Newbury Street office with only his hands and Divine connection. Brian has had clients fly into Boston from as far away as France to simply be with him for a session to experience his amazing energetic abilities.

Not metaphorically—literally.

Where Real Inner Peace Actually Begins

Most people can’t process our successes because it shatters their sense of possibility. But some things don’t need permission from modern cynicism to exist. Side by side, Helena and Brian didn’t stumble into influence by branding or buzzwords. They earned it the old-school way—through results that made people question reality. Not theories, Not predictions, Results.

That’s why Life in Synergy® isn’t a trend. It’s a lineage— a living body of knowledge built on decades of spiritual and physical mastery. It is a lighthouse for those who are done lying to themselves. So if you’re drifting into 2026 with that quiet anxiety in your chest— that whisper that says: I can’t keep living like this… then this message below was meant for you.

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If you are done with New Year’s resolutions that fail and ready for real inner miracles, this is where your spiritual transformation actually begins.

You don’t need motivational slogans taped to your fridge.

You don’t need the same New Year’s resolutions that died last March.

You need teachers

You need a path.

You need a system built by people who walked through the underworld

and came back with keys to “It” all.

True spiritual transformation does not come from motivation — it comes from changing the energetic architecture of your life.”

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Click the golden key to unlock your 2026 doors with Helena and Brian

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Spiritual Transformation That Actually Works

Join Life in Synergy in 2026 and unlock your unique frequency

Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy®

&

Brian Collins’ EFV Keys

Are not just programs.

They are energetic blades forged in fire— designed to cut through the glue of repetitive patterns that keep you stuck in the same life year after year.

You want deeper change in 2026?

Then stop flirting with small answers.

Stop trying to duct-tape your soul back together.

You either step into the higher frequency you’ve been dodging or you keep spinning in circles until life forces you to wake up.

⚠️ READ THIS BEFORE YOU SCROLL AWAY

Most people are not broken — they are trapped in repeating subconscious patterns that block real inner peace.

There is one thing you should know:

Transformation is time-sensitive.

Not because the universe punishes you—

but because the patterns you refuse to resolve

will grow teeth and bite harder every single year.

And the longer you wait,

the harder your subconscious becomes to shift.

Just like muscles atrophy, Spiritual energy calcifies.

Millions of people will hit January 1st 2026

with big plans,

big goals,

and zero internal infrastructure to sustain them.

They will crash.

They will blame their circumstances.

They will retreat into the same dull routine—

and call it “being realistic.”

If that sounds like the path you’re about to walk (again),

then hear me clearly,

Do something different this time.

🔥 This Is Your Call to Action in 2026🔥

→ If you are tired of repeating the same year again and again.

→ If you feel life pressing you to expand but you don’t know how.

→ If some stubborn part of you refuses to admit how powerful you truly are.

Then visit lifeinsynergy.com program page right now.

Explore Helena Collins’ Apex Life in Synergy® Program.

Dive into Brian Collins’ EFV Keys.

Get in the life arena.

You don’t have to believe in miracles.

You just have to be willing to meet the part of you that has been waiting for this moment.

Every year, people answer the call.

They rise.

They transform.

They break the karmic loop and step into their higher self.

And the rest?

They blink, look away,

and spend another season pretending they aren’t drowning.

Don’t be one of them.

The door is open for you, The work is real, And the time is now.

Aging Wisdom: Stop Eating Fast-Food Spirituality

By Helena and Brian Collins Life in Synergy
www.lifeinsynergy.com

The Fast-Food Trap of the Spirit

Let’s be honest — most people feed their souls the same way they feed their bodies: fast, cheap, and easy. A daily diet of “feel-good” quotes, 10-minute “meditations”, and cookie-cutter online gurus promising enlightenment before lunch. It works… until it doesn’t. Then, somewhere between the heart’s whisper and the body’s slow rebellion, the truth creeps in: life isn’t measured by how “busy” you were — it’s measured by the quiet reckoning that comes at the end. When life breath grows thin and energy begins to fade, one question arrives like a thunderclap:

“Was I a good _________?”

A good parent?

A good friend?

A good partner?

A good human?

That’s the question no “fast-food spirituality” prepares you for.

🧑‍🍳 The Gourmet Path: Real Transformation Takes Time

At Life in Synergy, we’ve spent decades refining what we call gourmet spirituality — not because it’s fancy, but because it’s real nourishment.

We don’t hand you cheap affirmations.

We help you taste your own depth.

We don’t bypass your pain.

We help you cook it into wisdom.

We don’t rush the meal.

We invite you to sit down with your soul and finally consume something that sustains you.

Our programs — from Helena Collins’ award-winning Apex Life in Synergy® Program to Brian Collins’ EFV Keys (Energetic Frequency Vibrations) — are designed to help you connect to the Divine spark within you right now, not someday when everything’s perceived as perfect. Visit www.lifeinsynergy.com and explore the tools we’ve built to help people awaken, align, and live in synergy — mind, body, and spirit.

🏆 Decades of Real-World Success

We’ve worked with thousands of clients in Boston’s Back Bay and beyond — at our physical studios on Newbury and Boylston Street, where people didn’t just improve muscles; they under Helena Collins multi award winning guidance, opened understanding of the true self while doing so. Many described feeling a synergistic force so palpable it changed the trajectory of their lives. Helena Collins — a two-time Best of Boston award-winner and best-selling author of Nutritional Alignment — spent decades creating systems that integrate movement, breathwork, and energetic frequency recalibration. She has proven that true wellness is not about temporary relief; it’s about spiritual repatterning — from the inside out.

🧬 Science Meets Spirit: Articles That Back the Journey

1. BMC Geriatrics Study — “Spirituality and Quality of Life in Older Adults” — shows that spirituality directly predicts better mental well-being in aging populations.

   
   👉 Read here

2. UC San Diego Study on Wisdom & Spirituality — found that the more a person cultivates spiritual awareness, the more resilient and wise they become with age.
   👉 Read here

3. Yale Reflections Journal: “Epiphanies of Senior Spirituality” — reveals how older adults find peace through meaning-making and life review, not external validation.
   👉 Read here

“Each of these echoes what we’ve taught for decades at Life in Synergy®: aging is not decline — it’s ascension. The outer body slows, but with the proper information, the inner light can accelerate.”

— Helena and Brian Collins-Life in Synergy®

Your Invitation

You don’t have to wait until you’re staring down mortality to wonder, “Was I a good _________?”

You can begin living that answer today.

Start by reconnecting to the truth inside you — the current of Divine intelligence that never ages, never fades, and never leaves.

We’ll help you find it.

👉 We’ve done it for thousands before you.👈

Because Life in Synergy isn’t fast food for the soul — it’s the gourmet meal your spirit’s been starving for.

You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink.

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Let me tell you about a business owner decades ago that came to me for a special packet of energy: a name for their expanding empire.

After being a client of mine for years on Newbury Street and seeing many miracles along the way occur for them as a result of my work, they experienced the power that goes beyond the principles of business, the unseen frequencies that bind success, or failure. And so, I did what I do. I tuned in. I sought the right resonance, the specific vibration that would align their business with prosperity and the cosmic flow.

I found it for them. The correct name.

I discussed with them, too, as I always do with these things and said, "This name may bring you great success, but it is not a thing to be screwed with at all. Change it, and you will open a door you cannot close. And that world, will be out of my hands as I am just the plumber cleaning out cosmic clogs. If you change the name, you will clog a drain that I just unclogged". For years, this name was their key. Business boomed, new locations opened, and the prosperity flowed like fine wine.

But people forget. Success blinds.

They grew, expanded out, and somewhere along the way, they forgot all about me, my past miracles for them and my instruction. Maybe they had outgrown me or the name or needed something fresh ( Who knows why), maybe something trendy to match their newfound fame. So, they changed it on their own but never contacted me again for my services to see if it felt okay.

I wasn’t there when it happened. I had already moved on, guided by new clients, new frequencies to match with those who sought me out. But word reached me that the business started to falter and issues were coming up. The empire I had helped create began to crumble under the weight of...something. Something unseen. Or maybe, just maybe, it was that new name frequency creating an alternate reality.

The last time I saw the client at our last physical meeting, I could see it in their eyes.

What I gave was not just a name, it was a Divine key, tuned precisely to the universe’s lock for them. When they threw it away, they created a new realm of chaos, uncertainty, and things outside of my control. So, for anyone reading this and thinking they can play with the frequencies of life without consequence, consider this story. There is mana in words, in a vibration, in the unseen. And there is mana in honoring that which was given to you with trust and faith, especially when the person who gave it warned you not to mess with it at all.

Sure, you bet your ass, I am an unconventional spiritual teacher/business consultant yes, but PhD’s, Dr’s, Lawyers, Rock Stars, Comedians, Moms, Pops, Aunts, Uncles, Finance leaders, Movie Stars, Business Owners, Scholars can’t all be wrong.

Food for thought: never judge a spiritual teacher by its cover….If you judge, you shall be judged or some shit like that.

Brian Collins Life in Synergy Inc.

Wow! See? A magazine likes me!

Who let the air out of the tires?

Did you ever have a moment when you felt that the world was your oyster?

Life itself was a supernova and the world was exactly on track?

You could see your role and it’s infinite possibilities on how you could contribute to the bigger picture of life itself and by doing so, you yourself would also ascend to new levels of consciousness? You may have had a specific song play in your head as a soundtrack and a special pep in your step as each step forward was indeed a step forward into a new world of your creation?

Then the fan that cosmically spun, suddenly had massive shit thrown directly at it and clogged its mechanisms. Suddenly you felt devastated, weakened and off track. Your very being was wiped and the pep in the step was replaced with the doom in your gloom. How can this be? How can a cosmic battery be drained so quickly?

Energy hounds and old patterns are Ninjas that’s why.

Both can knock a person off center at any time if a person loses sight of the unfortunate truth of our dimension: if there is good, there is evil.

A good person who is blind to this reality is subject to the double whammy of self attack and of the negative will of others. A self attack consists of subconscious thoughts and actions often sabotaging a persons forward progress. Why would a person do that to themselves you might think? They wouldn’t, the subconscious mind is simply a hard drive that stores information throughout a persons present ( and past) life and when challenged with new energy patterns, thoughts, deeds and actions may rebel against what it considers its “only”cemented reality.

This challenge may lead to self destructive actions, arguments, disillusionment as the subconscious tries its best to hold a firm grasp on “What is” and unknowingly a person will fall prey to the subtle aspects of old ways surfacing and causing slow downs in ones progress. I personally went through periods of this as I studied deeply in Chi Gong and Hawaiian spiritual aspects throughout the years. I was challenged daily by my older mindset of being “just” an inner city kid who couldn’t possibly ever be like the Masters I idolized, after all, they had the secrets and me? I was just a guy from the projects in the lower end of South Boston.

All old bullshit in my subconscious.

As my training continued over the decades and I began to wake to the acknowledge that I was the person people came to see from all over the world to create change for them at my office on Newbury street in Boston’s Back Bay and I was rewriting my life story daily by fully dedicating myself to the new energies I was creating. I will pat myself on the back and say I also never forgot that there is a ton of negative bullshit out there and stayed true to my inner city side (keeping a spiritual head on a swivel) so I guess in many ways I accepted that the yin yang as just not an Asian symbol, but an absolute fact on the ever shifting levels of invisible influential duplicity and prepared myself for any and all “Ninjas” that may pop up.

If there is light, there is indeed dark and a seeker has to be prepared and learn how to feel the subtle changes of these intertwining flows moment by moment. As you unlock new levels of self , you can and will identify the “What was energy” and “What is” and be more aware to old energies trying to regain frequency control and influence your thoughts and actions. This is the key to not allowing subconscious influence to creep in as you ascend into new heights.

Energy hounds?

Now they are on a whole different predatory level.

They are ones that when you say things like “What a wonderful sunny day” they will say to you “ No, Not really, “blank” is currently in war and people are dying or tell you a story about how a relative of theirs can’t be out in the sun and cries in a window when the sun comes out. You know the type, we have all met someone like this be it at work, social life or encounter with a stranger on the street. These people will say white is black, up is down, day is night and so on, all to just cause a rift in your peace so they can feed on your positive field reaction and use it for themselves. They in turn will make you feel as if you are one that has all the facts wrong and then add onto the energy draining by gaslighting you into thinking that you may be wrong for being so positive in an often negative world.

We all know the feeling after being near a person like this: tired, confused, and completely off center.

These people are very easy to diffuse, you simply do not engage and if you have engaged…walk away. There is no being rude to a person who is trying to drain energy off you, it is simply aura self defense. You owe nothing to an energy hound, if you work with one, if you are friends with one, if you just met one…..when you feel the shift in your vibration begin and feel a “pull” into this persons world…walk away. Preservation is better than being reduced to their level. Who cares if they say “You are rude” as they are simply sending out feelers to pull you back in to them by seeking another reaction from you by doing so, see the endless tendrils?

You owe it to yourself to read this blog and then study what thoughts YOU then have….are they telling you “This is bullshit” perhaps?

Mine thought was just that many decades ago when I met the Kahuna I would study with for the very 1st time, he quickly altered that thought of mine and well, off I went into the land of renew and haven’t stopped yet. He has since passed away and in many ways I feel as if I have picked up the staff and gone off into the desert of the world continuing my “job” of being the man behind the curtain of change. I remember when he came to Boston 2 decades ago after I did something VERY large for the city and pulled me aside and told me that All ( including him) in his organization should be studying with me, he was so proud of what I had become and said that saying that fact to people in his organization would cause many wonderful “opportunities” to grow and advance. I asked him why would people reject that fact if they were indeed so ascended? He said in his great old Hawaiian accent ( sort of like a Hawaiian Jerry Seinfeld) “ Ohhhh, no matter who people think they are, they always have ego tapping them on their shoulders to remind them they are not”.

So I ask you at YOUR crossroads, see that blue button below?

That is now your chance to ascend, a chance to begin to study new ways or let old outdated energies run your life ( and thus all life on Earth based on Quantum Entanglement). By simply clicking off and taking some morsels of knowledge to regurgitate that you read on this blog and not telling your clients, friends or co workers about www.lifeinsynergy.com, you continue the rule of old energies on the planet and add onto the “take take take” imbalances on Earth or you can purchase one of our programs and help shift the planet.

Brian Collins- Retired Healer and Current Old Man behind the curtain

Life in Synergy® Inc.

The Pitfalls of Never Feeling Loved and Uncertainty's Power to Freeze

The feelings of never being loved and the uncertainty it brings can paralyze our inner guidance.

These experiences can significantly impact our emotional and spiritual well-being. This Life in Synergy® blog explores these pitfalls and offers insights on how to navigate them. The impact of Never feeling loved can echo on and be passed on from generation to generation and thus continue the pattern like a virus seeking a new host. Feeling unloved by parents, in relationships, with friends, etc., can have deep and lasting effects on our self-esteem and emotional health. This pattern of neglect can alter a persons perception of not only themselves but the energy of the external world as well throughout a entire lifetime. Self-Worth: Constantly feeling unloved can erode our sense of self-worth and lead to negative self-perceptions and the unchecked desire to spread our internal discontent outwards to others. Emotional Isolation: This feeling can isolate us emotionally, making it difficult to form meaningful, truthful connections with others.

It's important to recognize and address these feelings to foster healing and growth. 🌳

Self-Love: Cultivating self-love and compassion is crucial in overcoming feelings of being unloved. Engaging in self-care can help rebuild our self-worth, but acknowledgement of the answer when it arrives is crucial to release and repair. Seeking Support: Reaching out to supportive friends, family, spiritual guides or a therapist can provide the emotional support needed to overcome these feelings.

Uncertainty can be a powerful force that freezes our internal guidance, preventing us from making decisions and moving forward.

• Paralysis by over Analysis: Overthinking and worrying about the unknown can lead to inaction and stagnation ( repetitition).

• Fear of the Unknown: The fear of what lies ahead can paralyze our decision-making process and hinder our progress.

Learning to navigate uncertainty is essential for personal and spiritual growth.

• Mindfulness and Presence: Staying present and focusing on the current moment can reduce the anxiety caused by uncertainty.

• Trusting the Process: Trusting in the journey and having faith that things will work out can help us move forward despite the unknown. This is very hard for people to accept as the prior energies that aid in creating an addiction to self induced chemical states of mind ( natural) through negative behavior(s) that reinforce the desire for attention are often very , very seductive and people are often tricked by their own internal dialog that justify the spread of ones unresolved negative energies outward as it gives them a natural high that comes with turmoil.

The feelings of never being loved and the power of uncertainty can be significant obstacles in our lives.

By cultivating self-love, seeking support, and practicing mindfulness, we can overcome these challenges and continue on our path of personal and spiritual growth. This process is much more important than you the reader can imagine as I have personally seen the energy of unresolved internal conflicts manifest as external and have seen many “unresolved emotional car fires” lit and wind up burning the entire world through unresolved emotional disconnect(s).

We are all one and what we do to ourselves we do to the entire world, so unless you are rich enough to leave this planet forever and live with some Gray Alien on planet Blip Blip, you better wake up to the fact that you simply don’t shit where you eat. So the next time you want to externalize unresolved issues within, think of the ripple effect of doing so. Take a moment, step back and ask yourself this question : “What am I doing to help shift negative energy on this planet”?

The answer will tell all.

Brian Collins

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