4 Tips to Destress

Stress

I wanted to repost my tips that I was interviewed by Boston Magazine a few years ago…..with so much stress in the world, I wanted to give a few tips to help with body energy and ascension from life-sucking levels of anxiety and doom.

Scenario One: Yet Another T Breakdown or Mass Pike Traffic Jam

Instead of stewing about how late you’ll be, use your stationary time to think of something positive, Collins says.

“If you are frustrated, then create the energy of pleasure in your head. Replay a positive scenario that you have had in the past over and over for three minutes in your mind,” he recommends. “This personal life experience mantra will help to change your overall vibe and make a crappy situation more tolerable.”

Scenario Two: Work Stress

Whether it’s a tight deadline, a demanding boss, or an always-annoying co-worker, the office is rife with stressful situations. When dealing with the irritating desk-mate, Collins suggests looking inward.

“You have to realize that you can never change the other person,” he says. “If they are annoying, could you be producing annoyance energy in any way?” Take a minute to take stock of your own internal state and the vibes you’re putting off.

Scenario Three: Dealing with Rudeness

Next time your barista snaps at you or a stranger jostles you out of the way on the T, Collins says to analyze where in your body you hold that stress—maybe you make a fist or hunch your shoulders—and let it go.

“Everyone has a specific storage bank in the body that stress makes deposits to when you encounter people that pull your ‘rude trigger,'” he says. “Next time you encounter a rude person, simply adjust this area by taking a long breath, hold it for a moment, exhale, and focus in on your storage bank and relax this affected zone.”

Scenario Four: The Seat-Kicker

It’s a rule of the universe that a child will kick the back of your seat on every long flight, ever. Collins insists the annoyance can be spun into a positive.

“What I do is envision the kicks as a release mechanism,” Collins says, adding that this mindset may take a while to adopt. “With each kick, I see my tension subsiding versus increasing. I use the child’s actions to bypass a normal emotional response.”

Enjoy the above and check out our amazing mindfulness programs available to you.,,,they contain some really really good shit.

Brian

So here we once again resetting and restarting.

Our new website is a return to the fun of “us” and the vibrant spirit of possibility and hope.

With this awesome change comes a new blog and well, found out that the old blogs cant be imported and brought into the new site…guess what?

That is cool and the actual basis of our collective ( Brian and I) understanding of the forward progression of life. It is the small stuff that stacks up and turns an emotional speed bump into a rampart that blocks your way. Dismissing any energy that pops up as “nothing” is something that should be looked at. All energies deserved to be looked at and studied…after all that is what a spiritual person really does, it isn’t simply to obtain a better life or magical experiences, it is about living in the totality of the moment and being open to all and being willing to release all.

So if you desire a new view and are ready to break the mold, shake the tree, and to be frank, dump all the old shit away with some kick-ass info….then you have landed on the correct blog. Start with us today and begin to see the world differently tomorrow.

Helena