The Divine Comedy of Spiritual Timing: A Slightly Sardonic Guide

In the grand, cosmic dance of life, where every step is a leap of faith and every leap lands you in another lesson, there's one beat we often miss - the rhythm of timing.

Ah, timing!

That elusive, often infuriating, and utterly divine aspect of our spiritual journey. For those treading the path, seeking enlightenment, or just trying to get through the day without spilling coffee on themselves, understanding the essence of timing is like trying to catch smoke with your bare hands. But fear not, dear traveler, for today we embark on a slightly sarcastic, yet profoundly sincere exploration of this mystical concept, guided by the illuminating light of LifeInSynergy.com and the unparalleled wisdom of Helena and Brian.

Helena and Brian Collins, the spiritual Gandalfs of our age, have been navigating the murky waters of wellness with the grace of a swan and the resilience of a pair of waterproof socks. As award-winning spiritual teachers who've helmed wellness businesses in Boston for decades, they've not only seen it all but have also helped their countless clients see it too. And by "it," I mean the luminous lightbulb moment when you realize that timing isn't just about showing up at the right place at the right time; it's about being open to the experience when you inevitably arrive at the wrong place at the right time, or the right place at the wrong time, and occasionally, by some miracle, the right place at the right time. Let's face it, in the realm of spiritual pursuits, timing is less about precision and more about patience. It's not a Swiss watch but a slowly blooming flower, revealing its beauty not when we demand it but when it's good and ready. And this, my friends, is where our dynamic duo, Helena and Brian, with their synergy-infused wisdom, remind us that the Universe doesn't own a wristwatch. Through their teachings on LifeInSynergy.com, they've shown us that the real pump of spiritual growth isn't about timing the market of enlightenment but about investing in the process, regardless of market conditions.

So, what can we learn from the sage advice of these spiritual titans and their legacy of light at LifeInSynergy.com?

First, that trying to control the timing of your spiritual awakening is like trying to teach a cat to meditate. Sure, it sounds like a great idea, but you're probably going to end up with scratched furniture and a profound sense of bewilderment. Instead, embrace the divine comedy of your spiritual journey. Laugh at the missteps, celebrate the detours, and remember that every moment is precisely as it should be, even if it feels like the Universe has a quirky sense of humor. So my spiritually inclined friends, let us walk forth with the knowledge that in the grand scheme of things, timing is not something to be mastered but to be marveled at. Let us be patient, let us be open, and above all, let us keep our sense of humor intact as we navigate this beautifully chaotic dance of life. And remember, when in doubt, seek the wisdom of Helena and Brian Collins, the spiritual compasses who remind us that the true essence of timing is found not in the ticking of the clock but in the beating of our hearts.

For more timeless wisdom and to learn from the masters themselves, visit LifeInSynergy.com and immerse yourself in the teachings of Helena and Brian Collins. Because in the end, dear seekers, it's not about when you arrive but the grace with which you embrace the journey.

The Road Not Seen: Learning from Our Ego's Missteps

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Hello there, friends.

Have you ever approached a teacher or a mentor, seeking guidance, only to let your ego convince you that you knew better?

It's a peculiar twist, isn't it? We seek out someone for their wisdom, and then, at the pivotal moment, our pride blinds us. This is a story not just about a wrong turn but about the humbling lessons that follow. Picture this: you're standing at a crossroads in your life. You know you need guidance, so you seek out a teacher. But as they begin to share their wisdom, a voice inside you whispers, “You know better.” This is where the journey takes an unexpected turn. The moment we tell our teacher, "I know more," we embark on a path led by ego. It seems right, fueled by a sense of self-assuredness. But soon, this path reveals its true nature – a labyrinth of repetitive patterns and missed wisdom. The wrong turn wasn't just a stray path; it was a mirror showing us the complexities of our own pride. Realizing the folly, we often then retreat to seek answers alone, jumping from book to book, philosophy to philosophy. Each book, each idea, feels like a step towards redemption, a way to fill the gaps we created. But the real answer isn't in the pages; it's in the unspoken dialogue between our ego and humility.

Revisiting the Teacher

There's profound power in revisiting that moment of prideful assertion.

What if admitting "I thought I knew more" is the first step towards truly understanding the bigger picture? This humbling return to the teacher – be it a person, a moment, or an experience – is where true learning resumes. The integration of this lesson is a dance of humility and wisdom. It's recognizing that our journey is enriched not just by the knowledge we seek from a mentor but also by understanding the limits of what we know. It's a delicate balance between seeking guidance and valuing the wisdom we already possess. Armed with this new understanding, our journey takes a more open-hearted turn. We still seek knowledge, but with an awareness of our own fallibility. Each step, each 'mistake', becomes a valuable chapter in our book of life, teaching us about humility, wisdom, and the beauty of lifelong learning.

In the end, our wrong turn – telling a teacher we knew more – becomes a critical point of growth. It's a chance for a lesson in humility, in the value of guidance, and in the power of admitting our missteps. Our paths are not just about the knowledge we gain but also about the wisdom we discover in our own vulnerabilities.

Today, think back to a moment when your ego led the way.

What did this experience teach you? Remember, the most profound lessons often come from acknowledging our misjudgments and embracing the journey back to humility and learning that leads back to the teacher that we thought we knew more. We always would joke at our multi award winning wellness studio on Boston’s Newbury street with this statement when clients entered the “ I know”….” I have no idea what you are talking about, but I know more about it than you”.

Helena and Brian Collins Best of Boston Winners and lifelong spiritual teachers to countless individuals and businesses

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The endless March of time: Cultivating Positive Energies with Apex Life in Synergy and EFV Keys

In the relentless march of time, we witness the resurgence of tumultuous unresolved energies from the past, manifesting as global unrest and calamities ( once again).

It’s a phenomenon that reveals the critical need for a vigilant collective consciousness—one that is attuned to the rhythms of the universe and the inner call for balance.

This is where the transformative power of multi award winning wellness and fitness Master Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy Wellness Program and retired healer Brian Collins EFV (Energy, Frequency, Vibration) Keys come into play.

Helena Collins 2x Best of Boston Winner

The Apex Life in Synergy Wellness Program stands as a bastion against the cyclical nature of negative energies. This innovative program created by multi award winning Fitness/Wellness Master Helena Collins is designed to synchronize the individual's journey towards self-improvement with the collective need for a higher vibration. Apex Life in Synergy is a holistic approach that addresses the 3 unique energies/aspects of the mind, body, and spirit, recognizing that true wellness is the product of their harmonious interactions with life itself. Through Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy program, individuals are encouraged to delve into practices that foster inner peace and external harmony. It is a guide to transcending the bounds of the ego and connecting with the greater tapestry of life. The program emphasizes and instucts in depth lessons on the importance of emotional, physical and spiritual health by utilizing Helena Collins best of Boston winning knowledge, which then directly contributes to the collective vibration that we radiate into the world as a student progresses in the Apex Life in Synergy program.

Brian Collins Best of Boston winner Training in Hong Kong (1996)

On the other hand, Brian Collins EFV Keys offer an exploration into the quintessential elements of Energy, Frequency, and Vibration that make up the very fabric of existence. These keys unlock the understanding of how our individual energies impact the greater whole. By studying these principles, one learns to master the art of energy manipulation—not in the sense of control, but rather in the artful dance of creation and positivity. These EFV Keys provide practical knowledge and tools ( Etheric energy production, thought assignment, inner sight, etc)that enable individuals to elevate their vibrational frequency. By doing so, they contribute to a buffer of positivity that can effectively counterbalance the remnants of old, disruptive energies that threaten global harmony.

Incorporating the insights and practices from both the Apex Life in Synergy Program and EFV Keys into daily life has profound implications.

They act as catalysts for the enhancement of collective conscious power, guiding us to place the darker energies in check and letting the light of ascension shine forth. As these programs foster a collective awakening, they plant the seeds of hope, nurturing a fertile ground from which future generations can harvest peace and enlightenment.

Thus, in the face of time's relentless flow, it becomes a shared mission to adopt such empowering programs and make them a part of our universal quest for growth. Helena Collins Apex Life in Synergy and EFV Keys are more than just online programs—they are blueprints for building a resilient, spiritually synergistic world where every thought, word, and action shapes the destiny of all sentient beings towards ascension and harmony.

The clock is ticking, care to become part of the solution?

Helena and Brian

The Futility of Passive Consumption: Why Just Reading a Blog Isn't Enough

In the age of information, blogs have become a ubiquitous source of knowledge, inspiration, and entertainment.

They offer insights on everything from cooking and travel to spirituality and self-improvement. However, the act of merely reading a blog and doing nothing else is akin to window shopping at a bookstore—you admire the covers but never delve into the content. This passive consumption may feel fulfilling in the moment, but it does little to contribute to the blog's mission or your own personal growth.

The Illusion of Productivity

Reading a blog can give you the illusion of productivity. You may feel like you're gaining new insights or becoming more informed. However, this is a passive form of engagement that doesn't require you to apply what you've learned or contribute to a larger cause. It's like reading a self-help book and never implementing its advice—you gain theoretical knowledge but make no practical changes.

The Dunning-Kruger Effect

The Dunning-Kruger effect is a cognitive bias where people with low ability at a task overestimate their ability. When you read a blog and feel like an expert without putting any of the knowledge into practice, you're falling into this trap. You think you know more than you actually do, and this false sense of competence can be detrimental.

The Importance of Active Engagement

Active engagement means not just consuming the content but also interacting with it and applying it in real life. This could be as simple as sharing the blog post on social media to spread its message, or as complex as starting a community project based on the insights gained. Active engagement benefits both the reader and the blog's mission, creating a synergistic relationship that enriches the community as a whole.

The Karmic Perspective or the repeat of “Why should I help them?”

From a spiritual standpoint, the act of merely reading without contributing is a missed opportunity to generate positive karma. By actively engaging, you're putting positive energy into the universe, which not only benefits you but also helps to fulfill the blog's mission of spreading knowledge or awareness to ALL on Earth.

While blogs are a valuable resource for information and inspiration, passive consumption of their content is a futile exercise. To truly benefit from a blog and contribute to its mission, active engagement is crucial. Whether it's by applying the knowledge gained, sharing the content, or starting a dialogue, taking that extra step can make all the difference.

After all, knowledge is power, but only when it's put into action, again and again and again…..

Helena and Brian

Climate Change & The New Roommates: Why Humans Have To Stop The Feud & Cuddle Up

ALL Life in Synergy can begin with you raising your consciousness.

Hello, Earthlings! Today, we're diving into the hot topic of climate change.

And when I say "hot," I mean, come on, we're talking about the Earth running a fever here. But here's a twist: How is this planetary fever affecting the size of our "living room," and why might you end up bunking with someone you can't stand? 🌍🔥

The Great Shrinkage

Once upon a time, the Earth had lots of space. Vast deserts, sprawling forests, endless oceans—so much room for activities! But thanks to our stubbornness and love for fossil fuels, we've been cranking up the thermostat year by year, melting ice caps and raising sea levels. Essentially, we're turning Earth into a cozy (read: uncomfortably warm) studio apartment.

Sure, a studio apartment sounds cute and chic, until you realize there's no room for your extra stuff. Say goodbye to the endless rows of cornfields in the Midwest and say hello to beachfront property in, well, everywhere that used to be far away from the beach. 🏖️

No Room for Hate: Get Over It, Or Get Wet

Alright, so now that we've got less room to move around, we've got to make some new arrangements. There’s going to be a bit of a domino effect. People from coastal regions will have to move inward. Folks from desert areas that become uninhabitable will also have to pack up. And no, calling "dibs" on a spot isn’t going to work this time.

Here's the kicker: you can't pick your new neighbors. Given how humans are historically great at bickering over differences—be it race, religion, politics—you might end up sharing your 'newly downsized Earth' with someone you disagree with. But hey, unless you’re willing to relocate to Mars with Elon Musk, you might have to drop the 'tude and learn to live in harmony.

From Social Distancing to Social... Closening?

Remember the social distancing we practiced for health safety? Well, that was fun while it lasted. Now we’re going to have to master the art of "social closening." Yes, I just coined that. You're welcome.

In this teeny tiny world of the future, privacy will be as rare as a climate change denier at a Greta Thunberg rally. It's time to put on our big-kid pants and learn some conflict resolution. If global warming is teaching us anything, it's that we really are all in this together. Yes, even with Karen from accounting who still doesn't believe in recycling. 🙄

The Karma of Climate Change: A Spiritual Wake-Up Call?

If you're into the spiritual side of things (ahem, you know who you are), think about this as the ultimate karmic challenge. The Earth is pretty much saying, "Hey, you messed up my Feng Shui, now deal with the consequences." Maybe it’s time for some collective soul-searching.

In closing, let's consider climate change as our universal roommate agreement gone awry. Earth has tolerated our loud parties, our waste, and our general lack of courtesy for far too long. Now, as we scramble for the remaining good spots, maybe—just maybe—we’ll learn to appreciate our roomie and treat her right.

So, in the spirit of keeping Earth hospitable (or at least livable), let’s put our petty differences aside and snuggle up. We don't have to love each other, but we do have to live with each other.

Until next time, Earth-mates. 🌏✌️

Helena and Brian

When Déjà Vu, the Energy of Memories, and the Loop of Eternity Cross Paths: A Comedy of Errors

Hello, fellow truth-seekers! today, we're going to take a concept that's as old as time itself, "repetitive memory energy", wrap it up in a spicy burrito of humor, and try to make some sense out of it. Who said spiritual education can't be funny? Let's dive in!

Energy, Energy Everywhere

Let's begin with energy. It's in everything - powering your phone, making your morning coffee, helping you run (away from your responsibilities, probably) - and more abstractly, it's even part of our thoughts and memories. Imagine, if you will, that memories themselves have energy. Like that time when you confidently yelled the wrong answer in class and the room went silent. Oh, yeah. We've all been there. That memory has its own, personal energy signature.

Repetitive Memory Energy, The “Copy-Paste” of Life

When you replay this memory over and over (usually at 3 AM when you're trying to sleep), you're amplifying and repeating its energy. This is what we're calling "repetitive memory energy". It's like a cosmic game of "copy-paste", where the pasted version gets a little brighter and more impactful each time. Like if you tried to copy-paste a sandwich to feed all your friends, but with each paste, the sandwich became spicier. After a few times, your friends are on fire, and you're wondering why you thought magic sandwich copy-pasting was a good idea.

The Time Loop of Doom (Doom…Doom…Doom)

Now, as hilarious as that image may be (especially if you're imagining their reactions), there's an interesting concept here. If this energy we're creating by reliving our memories is influencing our present and future, are we just setting ourselves up to relive the same problems? It's like we're stuck in a movie loop, a la 'Groundhog Day'. Imagine if every day was the day you called your teacher "Mom" in second grade. Yikes!

Energy Vampires, or: How We Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Past

Here's the educational part: we can change the script. The first step? Recognizing that we're feeding these memory vampires. They thrive on the energy we pour into them. The more we focus on our past missteps, the more we replay that epic faceplant we did while trying to impress our crush, the stronger these memories become.

But what if we change the channel?

What if we focus on the energy of our successes, our wins, our happiest moments? Like the time you nailed that presentation or baked the perfect lasagna that would've made Garfield purr. That's right, even you, the reader, have achievements that deserve to be replayed on your mental highlight reel.

The Comedy in Our Errors

So, are we doomed to keep reliving our problems in an eternal cosmic comedy show? Only if we keep buying tickets. The moment we stop laughing at our own reruns (or cringing, as the case may be) and start premiering some fresh, positive content, we break the cycle. Click here to learn how to stop.

Like any great comedian knows (Right Colin?), timing is everything. In life, it's time we start learning from our past, laughing about it, and focusing on creating a better future. Because, at the end of the day, life might be an absurd comedy, but it's our absurd comedy. And who doesn't love a good laugh?

So here's to embracing our memory energy, however repetitive, to stop creating the same problems and start crafting new narratives. After all, if life is a sitcom, it's up to us to write the hilarious punchlines.

Let's make them good ones.

Helena and Brian

PS

Where have we been? In Europe doing what is needed for our world. See? Walking the walk isn’t as easy as just talking the talk. But actions speak more than any words and just look around to see the shit show currently. Care to join us in changing the course of the world?

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The Duplicity of Human Nature: A Nuanced Examination

The duplicity of human nature has long fascinated psychologists, sociologists, and philosophers alike.

As an inherent aspect of our existence, this duality reveals a complex interplay between seemingly contradictory facets of our character. In this deep deep blog, we will delve into the origins, expressions, and implications of this duplicity, exploring the factors that contribute to its manifestation and how it shapes human behavior.

Origins of Duplicity in Human Nature

The concept of duplicity in human nature has its roots in various philosophical and religious traditions. Ancient philosophers, such as Plato and Aristotle, alluded to the duality of the human soul, which comprises rational and irrational elements. Similarly, religious texts such as the Bible and the Bhagavad Gita emphasize the struggle between good and evil within the individual. The notion of duplicity has evolved over time, with more recent psychological theories, such as Freud's structural model of the psyche, also positing the existence of conflicting internal forces that shape human behavior.

Biological and Social Factors

The duplicity of human nature stems from both biological and social factors. On a biological level, the dualistic nature can be attributed to the interplay between the brain's emotional and rational processing centers. The amygdala, responsible for the emotional response, often conflicts with the prefrontal cortex, which governs rational thinking. This tug-of-war between emotion and reason is a cornerstone of human duplicity.

Social factors also contribute to the dualistic nature of humans. Socialization processes, including cultural norms, family dynamics, and peer influences, play a crucial role in shaping the individual's self-concept and behavior. Individuals often learn to navigate social environments by adopting context-dependent personas, which can lead to inconsistencies in self-presentation and behavior.

Expressions of Duplicity

The duplicity of human nature manifests itself in various aspects of human behavior. Some common expressions of duplicity include:

1. Moral Duality: The struggle between moral and immoral inclinations is a classic expression of human duplicity. Research suggests that individuals often experience a conflict between their moral compass and their self-serving desires, leading to moral dilemmas and discrepancies in behavior.

2. Authenticity and Inauthenticity: Duplicity can also emerge in the form of authenticity and inauthenticity. Individuals may present themselves differently in different contexts, leading to a discrepancy between their true self and the personas they adopt in different situations.

3. Cognitive Dissonance: The experience of cognitive dissonance, or the psychological discomfort caused by holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes, is another manifestation of the duplicity of human nature. Individuals may engage in self-deceptive practices to reconcile these conflicts, further complicating their sense of self.

Implications of Duplicity

The duplicity of human nature carries several implications for both the individual and society. On an individual level, this duality can lead to internal conflicts, emotional turmoil, and a fragmented sense of self. Additionally, the adoption of different personas can strain interpersonal relationships and hinder the development of genuine connections. On a societal level, the duplicity of human nature can contribute to social inequality, as individuals may exploit their duplicitous nature to gain unfair advantages or manipulate others. Furthermore, this duplicity can impede collective action on pressing issues, as individuals and groups may prioritize self-interest over the common good.

The duplicity of human nature is a multifaceted phenomenon with deep roots in biological and social processes.

Its various expressions and implications have profound consequences for both individual well-being and societal functioning. A deeper understanding of this duplicity can provide valuable insights into human behavior and contribute to more effective interventions that promote personal growth and social cohesion.

Helena and Brian

A short story of hope

Once upon a time in a small, secluded village, there lived a woman named Alina.

Her life had been filled with hardships and sorrow, yet she remained kind and compassionate. She often tended to the village's sick and offered comfort to those in need. Despite her own pain, she never let it deter her from her mission to help others.

One fateful day, a powerful storm swept through the village, leaving devastation in its wake. Many homes were destroyed, including Alina's, and she lost nearly everything she held dear. She was buried under the rubble, her body battered, and her spirit nearly broken. As she lay there, trapped and frightened, she felt an overwhelming sense of despair.

Hours passed, and as the storm subsided, the villagers banded together to rebuild their lives. They eventually found Alina, weak and injured, and rushed her to the village healer. As she lay in bed, she was plagued by nightmares that made her relive the storm over and over again. She could barely sleep, and her physical and emotional pain only worsened. One night, as Alina lay awake, her heart heavy with sadness, a mysterious, gentle voice whispered in her ear, "Seek the heart of the forest, and you shall find what you are looking for." Startled, she looked around, but saw no one. The voice, however, echoed in her mind and gave her a newfound sense of purpose.

Determined to find solace and healing, Alina mustered her strength and set out on a journey to the heart of the forest. She walked for days, her body aching and her spirit weary. Finally, she arrived at an ancient, towering oak tree. Its branches seemed to reach the sky, and its roots were as deep as the earth itself. It emanated an aura of serenity and wisdom.

Alina approached the tree, her heart pounding in her chest. "Please," she whispered, "show me the way to heal and find peace." A warm, golden light enveloped her, and she felt the tree's ancient energy flow through her. Images of her past traumas and pain surfaced in her mind, and she began to understand the lessons they held. The tree showed Alina how her suffering had shaped her into a compassionate, empathetic soul. She realized that her pain had allowed her to connect deeply with others and that her own healing journey would empower her to help heal others even more effectively.

The light dissipated, leaving Alina with a profound sense of peace and understanding. She knew that her suffering was not in vain, and her trauma had been the catalyst for her spiritual growth. Embracing her newfound wisdom, Alina vowed to continue her mission to heal and comfort others, now with an even greater capacity for empathy and understanding.

As she returned to her village, the people marveled at her transformation. Alina's strength and resilience inspired those around her, and she became a beacon of hope and healing for the entire village. She had transcended her trauma, and through her enlightenment, she helped others heal and find peace in the midst of their own storms.

Never give up.

Helena and Brian

Yin and Yang: The Dance of Opposites

Yin and yang are fundamental concepts in Chinese philosophy, representing the interconnectedness and interdependence of opposing forces in the universe.

They embody the belief that everything in existence has an inherent duality. This Life in Synergy blog will delve into the origins of yin and yang, their symbolism, and how they influence various aspects of life.

Origins of Yin and Yang

Yin and yang originated from ancient Chinese cosmology, dating back to the Yin and Zhou dynasties (approximately 1600-256 BCE). These concepts were later refined and elaborated upon by prominent Chinese philosophers such as Confucius and Laozi. They are integral to Daoist philosophy, which focuses on the harmony and balance of natural forces.

Symbolism and Meaning

Yin and yang are symbolized by a circle divided by a curved line, forming two teardrop-shaped sections. Each section contains a small dot of the opposite color, representing the presence of the other within it. Yin, the darker section, is associated with femininity, darkness, cold, passivity, and receptivity. Yang, the lighter section, represents masculinity, light, heat, activity, and assertiveness.

Interconnectedness and Balance

Yin and yang are interconnected and interdependent, as one cannot exist without the other. They are constantly in motion, transforming into one another and maintaining balance in the universe. The harmony between yin and yang can be observed in nature, where opposing forces work together to create balance and unity.

Influence on Daily Life

Yin and yang can be applied to various aspects of daily life, including health, relationships, and personal development. In traditional Chinese medicine, illness results from an imbalance of yin and yang energies in the body. By restoring balance through acupuncture, herbal medicine, or qigong, health can be restored.

In relationships, a harmonious partnership is achieved when both partners embody a balance of yin and yang qualities. Recognizing and appreciating the duality in each other strengthens the bond.

Personal development involves finding balance within oneself by embracing both yin and yang qualities. Cultivating self-awareness and mindfulness can help individuals achieve a state of harmony and inner peace.

Yin and yang are ancient concepts that continue to resonate in modern times, providing insight into the nature of duality and balance in our lives. By understanding and embracing these principles, we can cultivate harmony within ourselves and our relationships, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and balanced life.

Helena and Brian

The Art of Fumbled Opportunities and the Symphony of BS: A Masterclass

Greetings, fellow aficionados of life's absurdities!

Today, we'll embark on a whimsical journey through the chaotic universe of missed chances and never-ending BS. A realm where the mighty gods of Sarcasm and Irony reign supreme, and where humans with butterfingers excel in fumbling opportunities, only to create a majestic symphony of nonsense.

Chapter One: The Dropped Ball Chronicles

We've all had our fair share of missed opportunities. Like that time you had a perfect chance to talk to your crush, but instead, you decided to flirt with a fire hydrant. Or when you were handed the opportunity to invest in Bitcoin back in 2010, but you opted for Beanie Babies instead. Ah, such is life, where we boldly stumble where no one has stumbled before.

Take my buddy Steve, for instance. Steve had the chance to score free front-row tickets to the Super Bowl, but instead, he got food poisoning from a suspicious street taco. Now, if that's not a double whammy of fumbled fortune, I don't know what is!

Chapter Two: The BS Symphony in C Major (C for Crap)

As we navigate the treacherous waters of missed chances, we are inevitably confronted with the melodious tunes of pure, unadulterated BS. The world is teeming with it - from fabricated résumés to politicians' promises, and even those pesky Instagram influencers who swear by their skinny teas.

Let's turn our attention to Aunt Linda, a master conductor of the BS Symphony. Aunt Linda is the reigning queen of multilevel marketing schemes. With her unwavering belief in essential oils, she has attempted to cure everything from the common cold to global warming. Unfortunately for Aunt Linda, her essential oils have yet to turn a profit or save the planet, but she remains the embodiment of relentless BS.

Chapter Three: The Fine Art of Embracing the Chaos

The key to surviving the tumultuous landscape of missed chances and continuous BS is to learn to embrace the chaos. After all, what would life be without these absurd moments that make us question our sanity?

Think about it - if we nailed every opportunity that came our way, where would the fun be? What stories would we tell our grandchildren, or share with friends over a pint of beer? The truth is, our mistakes and follies make us human and give us character.

So, as you navigate this rollercoaster ride we call life, remember to take a moment to appreciate the beauty of fumbled chances and the harmonious sounds of the BS Symphony. And always keep in mind, the key to a life well-lived lies in embracing our own imperfections and finding humor in the madness that surrounds us.

In the immortal words of Bob Ross, "We don't make mistakes, just happy little accidents."

Keep on fumbling, friends

Helena and Brian

Embracing Our Mistakes: How Admitting We're Wrong Can Lead to Spiritual Growth

In a world where it's increasingly easy to hide behind our screens and deflect accountability, admitting when we're wrong can be a daunting task.

Society often equates being wrong with weakness, but in reality, accepting our mistakes is a crucial step in personal and spiritual growth. In this blog, we'll delve into the importance of recognizing our errors, the benefits it brings to our spiritual journey, and how we can cultivate the humility to own up to our mistakes.

The Fear of Being Wrong

The fear of being wrong is deeply ingrained in our psyche. From a young age, we're taught to avoid making mistakes, as they're seen as signs of incompetence or failure. But this mindset can be detrimental to our growth. If we're always worried about appearing perfect or infallible, we'll be hesitant to take risks, explore new ideas, or grow from our experiences.

Admitting We're Wrong: A Pillar of Spiritual Growth

1. Fosters humility and self-awareness

When we admit that we're wrong, we cultivate a sense of humility and self-awareness that is essential for personal and spiritual growth. Recognizing our imperfections allows us to see ourselves and the world around us more clearly, enabling us to make more informed decisions and grow in wisdom.

1. Encourages learning and growth

Mistakes are opportunities to learn and grow. When we admit our errors, we open ourselves up to new insights and understanding. Embracing our mistakes can lead to valuable life lessons and spiritual growth, as it teaches us to be more adaptable and resilient in the face of adversity.

1. Strengthens relationships

Owning up to our mistakes can strengthen relationships by fostering trust, respect, and empathy. When we admit our faults, we show that we value honesty and are willing to take responsibility for our actions. This can lead to deeper connections with others, as it encourages open communication and understanding.

1. Promotes self-compassion and forgiveness

Admitting we're wrong also helps us develop self-compassion and forgiveness. By acknowledging our mistakes, we learn to accept our imperfections and treat ourselves with kindness and understanding. This self-compassion, in turn, allows us to extend forgiveness and empathy to others, nurturing our spiritual growth and fostering a more compassionate world.

Cultivating the Ability to Admit We're Wrong

1. Practice self-awareness

Developing self-awareness is the first step in admitting when we're wrong. This involves paying attention to our thoughts, emotions, and actions, and reflecting on how they affect ourselves and others. By becoming more aware of our internal and external experiences, we can better identify when we've made a mistake and take responsibility for it.

1. Cultivate humility

Humility is essential for admitting we're wrong, as it allows us to recognize that we are not infallible and that our perspectives may be limited. Cultivating humility involves embracing our imperfections, seeking feedback from others, and remaining open to new ideas and viewpoints.

1. Foster a growth mindset

Adopting a growth mindset is crucial for embracing our mistakes and using them as opportunities for growth. This involves viewing challenges and setbacks as chances to learn and develop, rather than as indicators of failure or incompetence.

1. Practice self-compassion and forgiveness

Learning to forgive ourselves and others for mistakes is essential for spiritual growth. By practicing self-compassion and extending empathy to others, we can create a more compassionate and understanding environment, both within ourselves and in our relationships with others.

Admitting when we're wrong is not a sign of weakness; rather, it is an essential step in personal and spiritual ascension. If you are strong enough to exert yourself physically, have you done so spiritually?

Life is much more than you think.

Helena and Brian

The Road to Social Wellness: Navigating Connections in a Complex World

In a fast-paced world where technology, globalization, and shifting social norms are continually shaping our interactions, social wellness has become an increasingly important aspect of overall well-being.

Social wellness refers to the ability to develop and maintain meaningful, positive relationships with others while effectively navigating various social situations. It is a critical component of personal growth, mental health, and happiness. In this blog post, we will explore the different dimensions of social wellness, discuss the importance of fostering strong connections, and provide practical tips on how to improve your social well-being.

Dimensions of Social Wellness

1. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) Emotional intelligence, or EQ, is the capacity to recognize, understand, and manage our own emotions and those of others. People with high EQ can empathize, communicate effectively, and build strong relationships.

2. Communication Skills The ability to express oneself clearly and assertively while also listening actively and openly to others is an essential element of social wellness. Good communication fosters understanding, trust, and mutual respect.

3. Social Support A robust social support network is a vital component of social wellness. Having a circle of friends, family, and acquaintances who provide emotional, informational, and practical support can significantly impact our overall well-being.

4. Conflict Resolution Learning how to manage conflicts constructively and find mutually beneficial solutions is an important aspect of social wellness. It enables us to maintain harmony in our relationships and fosters a sense of belonging.

The Importance of Social Wellness

1. Physical Health Benefits Research has shown that strong social connections can lead to a healthier lifestyle, lower stress levels, and even increase longevity. Socially well individuals are more likely to engage in regular exercise, eat healthily, and maintain a balanced lifestyle.

2. Mental Health Benefits Socially connected individuals are less likely to experience depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues. Social support can help buffer against stress and provide a sense of belonging and purpose.

3. Personal Growth Being socially well allows for personal growth and development. Engaging with others exposes us to new perspectives, ideas, and experiences, fostering a greater sense of self-awareness and understanding.

Tips for Improving Social Wellness

1. Cultivate Emotional Intelligence To improve your EQ, practice self-awareness, empathy, and active listening. Reflect on your emotions and reactions to various situations and work on understanding others' perspectives and feelings.

2. Develop Communication Skills Learn how to express your thoughts and feelings assertively without being aggressive. Practice active listening by giving others your full attention, asking open-ended questions, and reflecting on what they have said.

3. Build a Support Network Invest time in developing meaningful relationships with friends, family, and colleagues. Attend social events, join clubs or organizations, and participate in community activities to expand your social circle.

4. Learn Conflict Resolution Techniques Develop skills for managing conflicts in a healthy way, such as using "I" statements, identifying common goals, and finding win-win solutions. Practicing these techniques can help reduce tension in your relationships and create a more positive social environment.

5. Set Boundaries Establishing healthy boundaries with others is crucial for maintaining social wellness. Communicate your limits, be assertive when needed, and learn to say no when necessary.

Social wellness is a multifaceted concept that encompasses our ability to create and maintain meaningful relationships, communicate effectively, and navigate the complexities of social interactions. By cultivating emotional intelligence through deep introspection and constant improvement through developing intuitive communication skills, building a strong internal voice, and learning to resolve past patterned conflicts, we can enhance our social well-being and ultimately lead a more balanced, fulfilling life.

Helena and Brian

Turning a Blind Eye: The Perils of Ignoring the Truth

In today's fast-paced, information-driven world, it's becoming increasingly easy to fall into the trap of ignoring the truth.

With so much information at our fingertips, we often struggle to differentiate between fact and fiction, sometimes opting to accept the latter due to confirmation bias or other psychological factors. In this blog post, we'll examine the consequences of ignoring the truth, explore the reasons behind this behavior, and discuss ways to confront and embrace reality, even when it's uncomfortable.

The Dangers of Ignoring the Truth

1. Eroding trust: When we ignore the truth, we erode trust in ourselves and our relationships. Deceit, misinformation, and denial can damage personal connections and contribute to a breakdown of communication.

2. Poor decision-making: Basing decisions on falsehoods or incomplete information can lead to negative outcomes, both personally and professionally. Inaccurate information can undermine our ability to make informed choices, potentially resulting in unintended consequences and regrets.

3. Stifling growth: Ignoring the truth can hinder personal growth and self-improvement. By refusing to face reality, we may miss valuable opportunities to learn from our mistakes and evolve as individuals.

4. Perpetuating ignorance: When we choose to overlook the truth, we contribute to a culture of ignorance. This can perpetuate harmful myths, stereotypes, and misinformation that negatively impact society as a whole.

Why Do We Ignore the Truth?

1. Confirmation bias: We often seek information that confirms our existing beliefs, leading us to overlook or dismiss evidence that contradicts our views. This cognitive bias can make it difficult to objectively evaluate information and recognize the truth.

2. Cognitive dissonance: When faced with information that conflicts with our beliefs or values, we may experience psychological discomfort. To resolve this tension, we may choose to ignore the truth, opting for a more comfortable, albeit flawed, narrative.

3. Fear of change: Accepting the truth can sometimes require us to change our beliefs, behaviors, or circumstances. This change can be intimidating, prompting us to cling to familiar falsehoods instead of embracing the unknown.

4. Groupthink: The desire to conform to the opinions and beliefs of our social group can sometimes lead us to ignore the truth. Groupthink can stifle critical thinking and prevent us from questioning the status quo.

Confronting and Embracing the Truth

1. Cultivate critical thinking skills: Develop the ability to objectively analyze information and evaluate its validity. Ask questions, seek diverse perspectives, and approach new information with an open mind.

2. Embrace vulnerability: Accept that acknowledging the truth may involve admitting mistakes or confronting uncomfortable emotions. Embrace vulnerability as an opportunity for growth and self-improvement.

3. Challenge your beliefs: Regularly reassess your beliefs and values to ensure they are grounded in truth. Be willing to update your views when presented with new, credible information.

4. Seek diverse perspectives: Engage in conversations with individuals who hold different opinions and beliefs. This exposure can help broaden your understanding of complex issues and challenge your preconceived notions.

5. Practice self-reflection: Regularly examine your thoughts, feelings, and actions to identify areas where you may be ignoring the truth. Use self-reflection as an opportunity to confront and address these blind spots.

Ignoring the truth can have significant consequences on our personal and professional lives, as well as on society as a whole.

By understanding the reasons behind this behavior and actively working to confront and embrace reality, we can foster personal growth, make better-informed decisions, and contribute to a more enlightened and compassionate world. Recognizing the value of truth and striving for intellectual honesty will help us build stronger connections, navigate challenges, and lead more authentic, rewarding lives in synergy with all of creation.

Helena and Brian

Evil energy is real and very sticky

1st…take all “ bibley” ideas out of this post

When we speak of evil, we do so in the form of etheric energy manifesting as tangible events of evil on earth.

Now if you want to call it the devil, bad chi, negative karma, etc…it doesn’t matter, as you as the reader know what evil is in all forms however you see fit to describe it. But you also have to acknowledge that it does in fact exist on Earth and that in many ways it is like a virus that spreads to each new host, though, unlike a virus that invades indiscriminately, evil picks hosts that are willing to spread dysfunction through “peripheral” aspects of itself that are a beacon to the energy.

If that is somewhat confusing, let us phrase it this way…..

Evil will be pulled towards diluted versions of itself to multiply: Greed, deceit, unresolved insecurities, energies that can be exploited, as well as fears, and more. Now, this doesn’t mean that people who have any of these issues are evil, it means that evil is hungry for this type of energy to feed off. It is a slippery slope between someone being affected by evil then in turn causing problems for another person( virus) vs taking the time to dissolve the connection within So many instances over the years in our profession have we come across clients that had issues as far back as childhood that caused them to act out in later life when they became highly successful and able to cause pain and suffering for others.

Lack of control as a child? Then control others as an adult with deceit

Fear of providing for the family? Then tap the subconscious and lie to cause fear in someone else

Evil is seductive and will provide a person with a rush of stability and confidence, but just like any other drug, it will also decay the user and bring them to a state of internal rebellious denial screaming that “they” don’t have a problem and in many ways, they might even bullshit themselves to think that they are the most beautiful person on the planet. This happens when a person is encased in a vibration that is then a part of the persons being and they are so embedded in evil that they think that their actions ( despite any obvious contrary outcomes) are perfect. It is also what we called “The Elvis Syndrome” where people are around successful people but never speak out when actions go astray thus feeding the evil and allowing ego to spread unchecked.

Evil is an energy and can be addressed.

Right here, right now…care to aid the planet?

Us

After us there will be________?

Imagine you were let’s say, Ben Franklin, Frederick Douglass, or how about one of the Wright Brothers.

Could you imagine that your thoughts and actions at the time would lead to so much change in the future?

Far too often we forget that we are shaping reality through our efforts ( both good and bad). We think a closed business deal is a totality, a “great” day is better than a “bad” day or ego-based actions are “what” the world needs ( think penis-shaped rockets or deciding whatever tech social media babble is said is bond).

We want to colonize other planets and yet still haven’t stopped killing and hating each other here on Earth?

Now excuse me for being bold, but what exactly the fuck? Do these tech bro czars realize that they want to move “Earthlings” to Mars but haven’t looked at the concept of taking care of human consciousness BEFORE we do so? You don’t need an MIT or Yale degree to see that transferring a race chock full of racism and hate to another area and thinking that the same thing happened on Earth won’t happen there as well is….

Actual madness if you think about it.

We have computers between our ears, but fail to see that our brain software needs a HUGE update…we still are extensions of a hunter-gatherer mentality that discounts others to “get ours”. How long do you think that a tribe on Mars would last if we brought all our unresolved bullshit to another planet? Imagine if there was an impending disaster that would wipe out Earth and that these ego cock rockets were the arks that would be the last hope for humanity to survive as a race.

How long before the Billionaires realized that THEY had to pick up their own garbage? Clean their own pod? and GASP Treated someone else like their equal? (Insert spooky 1950s horror theme sound here). Yup…it would be the end of humanity and the blip that was humans would indeed be over. So, how about stepping back for a moment and think…hmmmmmm? Could this guy on this website I never heard of actually be correct?

It isn’t hard to see…..we need to ascend internally before we ascend to other planets physically.

Brian and Helena

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